I've always been passively interested in this subject so this is super duper interesting! I also wanted to ask: on your page regarding the soundbond code, you mention a similar, old code for autistics! Do you happen to have the link to that? It sounds very interesting!
I feel it would be beneficial for me to contact some of the site creators whom I've linked, but I've been so nervous to do that! I've been drafting a WIP email (in several senses of that abbreviation) for quite a moment now!
I don't know if LB Lee are one of them, but I can say they're super chill about people reaching out to them. I reached out a while back and they were lovely to talk to. I'd imagine a good number of others are as well!
Some of the words I use to describe my soulbonding experiences come from occult terminology, others from the soulbonding community itself. A few I coined myself. I've compiled a glossary here. https://soulbonder.com/essays/glossary.html
Many occultists, when given a quick peek at the bare idea of soulbonding will either laugh or immediately try to frame the concept as "fluffy" or somehow worthless, compared to their own serious wizardly studies into the secrets of esotericism. I discuss those objections here. https://soulbonder.com/essays/objection.html
This is the variation I was able to find. I don't know much about it or who made it, though. https://web.archive.org/web/20080616220325/https://autcode.neurelitism.com/
THANK YOU SM!