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prophetesque 11 months ago

omg i ADORE your questboard!!!

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squidcrusher 11 months ago

Thank you!! :)

squidcrusher updated Sam's Webbed Site

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squidcrusher

11 months ago

Going to be working on some blog posts to include in my AuDHD resource page this weekend :) I am planning to make a post about how I set up an run my Quest Chore Chart and how I've made journaling work for me and how it has helped me with soothing my fast moving brain. Hope you will enjoy it!

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swiftred updated SwiftRed's Site

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swiftred 11 months ago

I forgot to put back buttons on two of my blog posts, so figured I'd fix that. I doubt anyone is paying that close attention to me, but it feels better just to announce that I may not update the site for awhile. I'm feeling burnt out and stressed, so I'm trying to give time to let it pass.

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lizonline 11 months ago

Take your time and feel better soon! Stress is no fun, don't over-extend yourself working on your website ^_^

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swiftred 11 months ago

Thank you kindly!

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soulbox 11 months ago

Get some rest, treat yourself kindly. ^^

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squidcrusher updated Sam's Webbed Site

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squidcrusher updated Sam's Webbed Site

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squidcrusher

11 months ago

I can't get status.cafe to work right on my website 😭 I don't think it's a me issue. I tried looking it up and some people just have issues with the base code for some reason? Going to try some trouble shooting things I found when I get home

syntheticetoile updated Synthetic's Coffin

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aribluejeans updated Welcome to Ari's Garden!

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apples-room updated apples room

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squidcrusher

11 months ago

I have an affiliates button now :] I added everyone I am mutually following on there already<3

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squidcrusher updated Sam's Webbed Site

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swiftred updated SwiftRed's Site

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swiftred 11 months ago

A wild blog post appears! in which I tell you why I'm a silly goose

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miela583 11 months ago

Part of my job is customer support over the phone, and I suspect some people expect that if they are talking to someone following the golden rule, it’s their privilege to take advantage of it. Being kind is still important, I think, but I agree with your conclusion here pretty thoroughly.

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iztopher 11 months ago

Ugh, this is such a good post and such a hard lesson to learn, I feel you. My partner and I had to sit down and talk about this because I kept operating under this rule, but the way I wanted to be treated wasn't necessarily the way she did, and vice versa. I hope you can get back some of the kindness you put out into the world, even if it's expressed differently.

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phi1l1y 11 months ago

This is a wonderful entry, one I (and I'm sure countless others) really feel. I was actually talking earlier to a friend about something related; our ways of masking our autism often comes out as extreme politeness, and for me specifically, submissiveness. It is hard for me to identify sometimes that when I laugh at a stranger's joke I don't find funny, or smile and nod my agreement, etc., if that is -

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phi1l1y 11 months ago

- me wanting to be kind and acting out of my heart, or simply the way I feel I must behave. It's certainly a nuanced thing, especially when taking into consideration what you've said about how everyone loves and needs differently. Commencing my yapping now!

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swiftred 11 months ago

It made my day to hear that you both enjoyed and related to my post, and it's nice knowing I'm not the only one <3 thank you for commenting. @iztopher thank you for the well wishes!!

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swiftred 11 months ago

@phi1l1y I honestly think masking is such a bigger part of this than I give credit for. I've been trying to unmask in small ways, like trying not to be overly emotive, or compulsively smile all the time at everyone and, like you said, not laugh at unfunny things, and I realize just how deeply ingrained it is!! You're right that it's hard to separate. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts!

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swiftred

11 months ago

I've never been so excited to write before =) Muse is such a gift. And many thank you's to the overwhelmingly kind reception of my writing

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tehuan 11 months ago

awwwwh i'm so glad to hear it :] your writing is so wonderful

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swiftred 11 months ago

Thank you lots!!

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apples-room updated apples room

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swiftred updated SwiftRed's Site

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swiftred 11 months ago

My second entry for muse is now out =) I'm letting out a deep sigh as I release this one

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fairygore 11 months ago

this felt like it was so cathartic for you. sending you much love <3

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swiftred 11 months ago

Very much so, thank you <3 <3

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owlroost 11 months ago

I'm proud of you for finding that way out and holding tight to it. It's okay to be scared of the unknown, but it says a lot about a person's strength when they continue alongside their fear. I believe in you. Sending all the best wishes- may life be an upwards arc of things getting better for you from here.

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iztopher 11 months ago

I'm proud of you for making it this far, and I'm excited for the next chapter of your life! may it give you the breathing space you need to find out how to be yourself as an adult. i definitely relate to feeling like you've lost your younger fire

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cheytopia 11 months ago

Wishing you all the peace and space to heal and grow. I'm so glad you made it to a safe place <3

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kph 11 months ago

Wow! I've got chills. You're a very clear and emotive writer. And I'm so very excited for you, with the end of this dark winter in sight. Sort of like a yule celebration--you're halfway through this long dark. :)

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swiftred 11 months ago

@owlroost that means so so much, thank you for the well wishes and kind words. I definetely viewed my fear as a weakness, so this is a beautiful, empowering reframe

swiftred 11 months ago

@iztopher thank you so much <3 I really appreciate it

swiftred 11 months ago

@cheytopia thank you <3

swiftred 11 months ago

@kph that's very evocative imagery, thank you for the thoughtful message. It's about time, it's been night for so long! It touches me that you find my writing to be clear and emotive. I will hold that close to me for a long time <3

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tehuan 11 months ago

wow, this piece was so intense and wonderful. so proud of you for how far you've made it. it's always okay to be scared, and i'm wishing you luck as time goes on!

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swiftred 11 months ago

Thank you so much @tehuan <3 <3

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