Thank you! I actually don't really have any good websites to link you to (although W3schools never disappoints), but honestly I just figured out all my frames by studying others' sites and whatnot and played around with the code. It's messy, but it's fun! Frames are essentially just HTML tables, so there's millions of possibilities!
Maybe you should name the site "indecisive" until you can agree on something that better represents it.
ahh! thank you!! ^.^